Why men set up a boudoir session

The first question I ask clients when they book a session with me is this: What made you want to do a male boudoir photoshoot? The answer always varies. Clients set up a male boudoir session for themselves, or sometimes as a special gift for a significant other. Here are some reasons why a male boudoir photoshoot can be a powerful way to express yourself in front of the camera, and also why it can be a unique gift to give to someone special in your life. 


Setting up a male boudoir session for yourself

A lot of my clients explain that they have been wanting to do a male boudoir session for some time, they were just waiting for the right opportunity or moment to pull the trigger. A male boudoir photoshoot can be a big step for some, taking time to cultivate courage and being willing to be vulnerable in front of the camera. For others, it's more about wanting sexy photos for themselves because they are already comfortable in front of the camera, they just want to try something new. Some men want to document their fitness journey or experience by doing a male boudoir session. It's a chance for them to celebrate all the hard work they've put into the gym and diet. Last but not least, a handful of clients choose to set up a male boudoir session because they know they have somebody shame and want to work through that. Whatever the reason may be, doing a male boudoir session for yourself can be a very powerful and uplifting experience. 


Setting up a male boudoir session for someone else

Intimate photos of yourself can be a very special gift for someone you love or cherish. Many clients have booked male boudoir sessions so that they can give the photos or printed album to their significant other. Oftentimes, this type of gift is presented as a Christmas gift, birthday present, or anniversary celebration. I cannot tell you how many times I've heard my clients tell me how much their significant other loved receiving such a gift. Not only are they sexy, sensual, and fun photos to look at, the willingness to be vulnerable and do the shoot alone is admirable. In addition, since male boudoir photoshoot is not as common as female boudoir photoshoot, thinking outside of the box and getting your loved one something unique such as a male boudoir session is worth the investment. Your loved one will be sure to cherish the photos you give them for a lifetime. Who knows, it might ignite the flame to have your spouse or significant other return the favor.


Regardless of the reason for setting up a male boudoir session, it is an opportunity to transform the way you see yourself. It is the chance to truly empower your body and sexuality. Whether you are setting up a session for yourself or to gift to someone else, you are meant to be seen. Ready to set up your session? Contact me here.